My Third Parents: from Filipino Orphanage to an American Dream is the compelling story of one man’s journey full circle to find what matters in life. Dr. Fernando Kuehnel went from a deprived boyhood in an orphanage to life on the streets of Manila searching the trash for food and scrap metal before being adopted along with his two brothers by an American couple. Culture shock, heartbreak, isolation, and grief await the boys in their new home. It was not a dream come true – and the three boys found themselves abandoned again before being adopted a second time. Mercifully, their third set of parents is sensitive and prepared.
Fernando Kuehnel is married with three children: Fernando Jr., Tyler, and Andrea. Fernando has a doctorate degree in nursing practice, a master of business administration, and is a registered nurse. He works for a pharmaceutical company as medical science liaison. He continues working to improve the life of orphan children in Manila.
The book made me cry. I felt the rejection from the author 's heart. I would recommend to anyone who doesn't know how blessed they are to be born in a country full of opportunities, all they have to do is reach for it.
Fernando, Adriano, and Bobby joined our family after I had a family of my own, so first, Fernando, thank you for this look inside of your life. I learned a lot. It made me realize how little I knew of the life all you boys had before you came to our family. Mom and Dad were proud of everything you accomplished and are doing today. You are loved. Your brother.
I usually don't go for 'true life' books, but I thought I'd give it a try since it was recommended to me by the author's sister-in-law. I really enjoyed it. I came across some typos, but that certainly didn't ruin the experience for me.
This is a compelling, well-written memoir, and it takes the reader on an emotional journey to experience joy and heartbreak with you. This is a story of remarkable resilience and triumph over struggles...he encountered from a young age makes this a riveting story.
By this exceptionally touching memoir's end, readers will understand the reasons behind his feelings of solitude and marvel at his life's burdens. He clearly paints the disturbing details of his early life in run-down institutions and on the streets.
It is a story of inspiration for all who thinks it's hopeless to move beyond one's situation. Dr. Kuehnel proved he could do it. It is a haunting biography.